Spotify Wrapped,
But for Dating
Finally, a performance review for your love life. Debrief Dating is not just another dating app, it's a feedback loop for dating, designed to help you actually find true love.
Best way to find out
is to ask!
Well, not directly...
let us ask for you!
(don't break no contact, you've been doing so good)
How It Works
Get constructive and valuable feedback, with a mystical twist.
Verify
Sign up by entering your name, pronouns, and verifying your phone number.
The Roster
Enter 3-6 names and numbers of past exes, hook ups, low-commitment long-distance no-label situationships, you name it!
The Out-Reach
We'll send them a link via text with a carefully curated form to provide insights on you.
The Wrapped
Once you have your 3 responses, your Debrief Wrapped will be ready to view!
The Debrief
Host a powerpoint night with your friends, post to your story, and debrief with the squad. Recursive feedback loop? Absolutely.
What We Ask
Think BuzzFeed quiz meets kokology psychology meets performance review meets tarot reading. Your Debrief Wrapped dives deep into how each past flame truly saw you with questions that go far beyond the surface level.
What animal is Maya?
What fruit is Maya?
What time of day is Maya?
What candy is Maya?
The Deep Dives
- • "Describe how you felt when you met them in one word."
- • "What movie character represents their energy?"
- • "What areas would benefit them to work on?"
"This is an opportunity to help them grow as a person, only constructive and kind statements please."
The Golden Rule of Debriefing
YOUR DEBRIEF WRAPPED
First, Your Archetypes:
Each response unlocks a one-of-a-kind archetype - like a tarot card reading, but based on real data from your past. Three relationships. Three cards. Three versions of you.
The Beautiful Mess
"Sour and sharp like lemon, independent like a cat who comes and goes as she pleases. A 2am soul - alive when the world is asleep, thriving in the spaces between clarity. Polarizing like licorice - not for everyone, but unforgettable to those who get it. They met you and felt "tense" - that electric, uncertain, addictive kind. You're Fleabag: self-aware, chaotic, breaking the fourth wall on your own love life."
The Main Character
"Sweet and vibrant like mango, loyal and eager like a golden retriever who just wants to love you. You're 5pm golden hour - the moment when everything looks its best, warm light on everyone around you. Classic like Reese's - beloved, comforting, the one people reach for. They met you and felt "happy" - simple as that. You're Elle Woods: underestimated, radiant, proving everyone wrong with a smile."
The Fleeting Wonder
"Sweet and fresh like strawberry, delicate and free like a butterfly passing through. You're 12pm noon - bright, clear, uncomplicated. Colorful like Skittles - fun, light, a little all over the place. They met you and felt "calm" - at ease, like everything was going to be okay. You're Amélie: whimsical, observant, living in your own beautiful world."
Next, Your Narrative:
We take your three archetypes, the feedback, the patterns - and weave them into a story. Part reading, part reflection, part roadmap. It's not just what your exes thought of you. It's a mirror held up to your dating life, written like poetry, delivered like truth.
Here's an Example Reading:
PART 2: THE READING
(NARRATIVE)
Someone described meeting you as "disarming." Not intimidating, not comfortable — disarming. Like they had a whole script ready and you made them forget every line of it. They said you asked them a question about their childhood within the first twenty minutes and actually listened to the answer. That stuck with them longer than any date they went on that year.
Another person used the word "electric." They said you have this thing where you make someone feel like they're the only person in the room — and then you check your phone mid-sentence and the spell breaks. They compared you to Clementine from Eternal Sunshine: magnetic, a little reckless, impossible to love halfway. They said leaving felt like the right decision. They also said they still think about the way you laughed at their worst joke. Your Beautiful Mess is showing.
The third person wrote the most. They said you showed up to their apartment with a book you thought they'd like and never mentioned it again. They said you deflect compliments like they're projectiles. When asked what movie character you reminded them of, they wrote: "The person in the romcom who gives everyone else advice but won't take their own." They said they felt safe around you. They also said they don't think you felt safe around them, and that's why it ended.
Here's the pattern across all three: you're exceptionally good at making people feel seen. You remember the small things. You show up in ways that feel effortless but clearly aren't.
Here's what they want you to hear: you leave before anyone can leave you. Two out of three said some version of "I wish she'd told me what she actually needed instead of acting like she didn't need anything." One of them said you're the kind of person who'll drive someone to the airport at 5am and then not text them back for three days.
The Beautiful Mess, the Main Character, the Fleeting Wonder — three cards, but one thread runs through all of them. You know how to love people. You're still learning how to let them love you back.
So who are you when no one's watching?
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